2011 in review
Posted: December 31, 2011 Filed under: Uncategorized 5 Comments »The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2011 annual report for this blog.
Here’s an excerpt:
The concert hall at the Syndey Opera House holds 2,700 people. This blog was viewed about 18,000 times in 2011. If it were a concert at Sydney Opera House, it would take about 7 sold-out performances for that many people to see it.
Click here to see the complete report.
What’s So Positive About Negative Book Reviews?
Posted: July 2, 2011 Filed under: Uncategorized | Tags: book reviews, charlie brown, Literary criticism 5 Comments »
Cassandra over at Indie Reader Houston is facilitating an interesting discussion on How to Write A Negative Review.
She’s a professor and a teacher, so she’s always got great stuff to say. Even so, the phrase “negative review” clunked in my head like a softball in the spin cycle.
So naturally I had to leave a comment:
The idea of a negative review troubles me.
It’s helpful to remember that every attempt at artistry starts with a positive intent and, in some context, is always appropriate.
Finding the intended context and acknowledging the attempt are the alpha and the omega of what it means to be a reader. Anything less is a cop out and not worth the energy to read – or create. So why bother?
What do you think? Is there a place for academic reviews? Negative criticism? Pop over to Cassandra’s place and share your thoughts!
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4 Simple Lessons for Father’s Day
Posted: June 15, 2011 Filed under: Uncategorized | Tags: Family, Father's Day, Holidays, Parenting 7 Comments »
I didn’t have much of a Father growing up. My birth dad abandoned me and my adopted dad abused me. So, even though I have three kids, Father’s Day always leaves me feeling ambivalent because I want to give them things I never had, not receive gifts.
Here are four simple lessons I try to teach my kids. They aren’t original, but they are what I know as of today. Maybe they’ll help someone, somewhere, be a better Father someday.
- Attitude & Effort. Said differently, always be nice, never be last.
- Running & Reading. Don’t quit before the end. Books reveal better ideas and solutions.
- Live Like You’re Poor. Consuming isn’t living. Save early, save lots, and you’ll save yourself.
- Do Great Things. Goals, degrees, and culture are overrated. Don’t judge what others do, just try to live your life consciously and conscientiously.
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Marilyn Monroe Reads Ulysses
Posted: May 25, 2011 Filed under: Uncategorized | Tags: Don Quixote, James Joyce, Marilyn Monroe, reading list, Travel, Ulysses 3 Comments »Yes, Marilyn Monroe read. Here’s a good list. And here’s an interesting post about Ulysses Odysseus.

Life Lessons Learned From Food Trucks: Don’t accept a Taco Bell life
Posted: May 25, 2011 Filed under: Uncategorized | Tags: carne asada, food trucks, hearst castle, life lessons learned, tacos 6 Comments »
Life lessons learned from food trucks may seem as uninviting to you as an anniversary dinner at Taco Bell, but consider this: even in the middle of a digital revolution, life can only be lived in an analog world. That means where you eat, how you fuel your life, matters more than you think.
And it doesn’t get more analog than a food truck, does it?
Back in 2007 I ate the best tacos I ever had at a food truck in Cambria called Boni’s. My wife and I were there to see Hearst Castle. And, well, anything called a castle is meant to be impressive, and Hearst Castle was that, but the only memory my wife and I have of that trip is the carne asada tacos – they were seasoned, succulent, and from above Heaven.
They were so good that for the entire weekend we ate every meal but our second one at Boni’s food truck (we had the local pizza for our second meal).
If I knew these five life lessons learned from food trucks back when I had those tacos at Boni’s food truck, my world would be a better place today.
Said differently, don’t accept a Taco Bell life. Instead, apply these life lessons learned from food trucks to create for yourself what Henry David Thoreau would call a life unimagined in common hours.
Or as my wife would say, don’t settle for canned beans when a Latina can show you the difference.
Life Lessons Learned From Food Trucks #1
Carefully select the people you want to please. This is called a niche. Pursue it with passion. Relentlessly hone a product to meet demand. People will be drawn to your attitude about what you do.
Life Lessons Learned From Food Trucks #2
Avoid failure by testing. Start with a small concept. Build yourself a safety net, then stay debt-free. Your goal is to make enough profit in half a year to spend the other half doing what you want.
Life Lessons Learned From Food Trucks #3
You stand out in a crowd by doing what your competitors do, only better. Examine and understand why they are successful. Then develop the best it there is. Let hand-made, fresh, and innovative variety be your guide.
Life Lessons Learned From Food Trucks #4
The only process you’ll ever need is the ability to quickly and repeatedly try and fail. Mediocrity is the acceptance of standards and best practices; excellence is the abundant satisfaction of another’s needs.
Life Lessons Learned From Food Trucks #5
Nobody comes to you until you go to them first. Use persistent Twitter and Facebook updates. People can’t love your product until and unless they try it. Actively search for opportunities to share and never say no to a customer.
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Island Sky (via Avy Around the World)
Posted: May 20, 2011 Filed under: Uncategorized | Tags: Alain de Botton, Art of Travel, Homer, Illiad, Odysseus, Odyssey, Uganda, Ulysses 2 Comments »Maybe it’s the Irish in me, but I’ve always had a thing for stories of the road. Avy’s, told below, is among the best – beautiful, meaningful, and short.
Sometimes I wish I could spend my time traveling from bookstore to library and back, just writing about what I learned along the way, because there’s no one answer, I think, but rather a variegated constellation of possibilities looming above our horizon.
Call me strong in will to seek, but shouldn’t we all make like Avy and find our own personal Ulysses of the published word?
P.S. Learn more about The Art of Travel by Alain de Botton here.
Famous Sonnets: A Brief Poetry Lesson
Posted: May 16, 2011 Filed under: Uncategorized | Tags: Books, Edmund Spenser, English Renaissance, Gerard Manley Hopkins, Poetry, Sonnet, Sonnets, William Carlos Williams, William Shakespeare 4 Comments »
Brueghel's 1558 Landscape With The Fall Of Icarus inspired poems by W.H. Auden and William Carlos Williams.
Literature Professor Thomas Foster thinks famous sonnets can be explained in a brief poetry lesson. So grab a beverage of your choice and read on.
Foster says the sonnet is the only poetic form you’ll ever need to know. Sonnets have been around since the English Renaissance in the 1500s, but before you worry about the form (14 lines) or the meter (iambic pentameter), just read the poem for the pleasure and experience of it.
You’ve got plenty of time to worry about the images or language later.
A BRIEF POETRY LESSON FOR ROSSETTI’S A FAMOUS SONNET
One famous sonnet is An Echo from Willow-Wood by Christina Rossetti.
Two gazed into a pool, he gazed and she,
Not hand in hand, yet heart in heart, I think,
Pale and reluctant on the water’s brink,
As on the brink of parting which must be,
Each eyed the other’s aspect, she and he,
Each felt one hungering heart leap up and sink,
Each tasted bitterness which both must drink,
There on the brink of life’s dividing sea.
Lilies upon the surface, deep below,
Two wistful faces craving each for each,
Resolute and reluctant without speech:–
A sudden ripple made the faces flow,
One moment joined, to vanish out of reach:
So those hearts joined, and ah were parted so.
Some questions to consider are:
- How many sentences are in An Echo from Willow-Wood? Two. Lines and stanzas are nice, but if a poem is any good its basic unit of meaning will be the sentence.
- Where does the first period fall? At the end of line eight. The octet and sestet are each a single unit of meaning.
- What is the rhyme pattern? Rossetti repeats a four line rhyme pattern in the octet, then picks an uncommon rhyme pattern for the sestet.
- What idea does the octet convey? A moment between two lovers. The watery images recall the myth of Narcissus.
- What can you say about Rosetti’s use of the word brink? She uses it three times. Would the meaning change if she used a synonyms for brink?
- How do things change in the sestet? What is possible in the octet becomes actual in the sestet. What was together on the water is now separated.
VIDEOS OF FAMOUS SONNETS
- Famous Petrarchan (Italian) sonnets – Sonnet 104 by Petrarch
- Famous Curtal sonnet – Pied Beauty by Gerard Manley Hopkins
- Famous Spenserian sonnet – One Day I Wrote Her Name Upon the Strand by Edmund Spenser
- Famous Shakespearean (English) sonnet – Sonnet 73 by William Shakespeare
- Famous blank sonnet – Ozymandias by Percy Bysshe Shelley.
7 OTHER VERY FAMOUS POEMS READ OUT LOUD
- Sestina: Altaforte by Ezra Pound. Pound was known for Imagism, a technique based on classical Chinese and Japanese poetry—stressing clarity, precision, and economy of language, and forgoing traditional rhyme and meter in order to, in Pound’s words, “compose in the sequence of the musical phrase, not in the sequence of the metronome.”
- The Waking by Theodore Roethke. A villanelle, this 1954 Pulitzer Prize-winning title poem can also be found in Slaughterhouse-Five by Kurt Vonnegut.
- The Bridge by Hart Crane. His first, and only, attempt at an American long poem, sometimes called the ‘modernist epic.’ Inspired by New York City’s Brooklyn Bridge.
- The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock by T.S. Eliot. Beyond explanation. Just listen and enjoy.
- Out, Out by Robert Frost. A supposedly inanimate object is described as a cognizant being, aggressively snarling and rattling as it does its work.
- Clearances by Seamus Heaney. An elegiac sequence of eight sonnets on the death of Seamus Heaney’s mother.
- Easter 1916 by William Butler Yeats. Describes the events of the Easter Rising staged in Ireland against British rule. Think Sunday, Bloody Sunday by U2, only 67 years earlier.
POETRY RESOURCES
- How to Read a Poem and Fall in Love with Poetry by Edward Hirsch
- Princeton Encyclopedia of Poetry and Poetics
Life Lesson Learned: Whoever Knows The Stories Has Wisdom
Posted: May 14, 2011 Filed under: Uncategorized | Tags: and Palmer, Emmerson, Lake, Life Lesson learned, Lucky Man, Mario Vargas Llosa, Storyteller 5 Comments »Sometimes life tells stories.
One time a classical guitarist played the song Lucky Man by Emerson, Lake, and Palmer at my wedding reception. Do you know the chorus?
Oh what a lucky man, he was!
That marriage ended when it worked worse than chopsticks in a pizza parlor. Years later life told another story.
This time I lost the irony of the original song, married the best woman in the world, and finally became a lucky man. That means she bought the first beer, later asked me to marry her, and after seven plus years she still indulges my minor faults.
For instance, I’m a borderline compulsive reader. I read in the bathroom, in the bedroom, and even read while I walk sometimes. That’s how I manage to read over 100 books a year , three daily newspapers, and 58 blogs.
Sometimes a post will remind me of someone – something they said, something they like, something I feel called to share – and I email it to them. Since my wife is also my best friend, she gets most of these emails.
A few days ago I sent her a post. She responded with a great insight, “Patience is a SKILL. If we’re not patient, we lose our health. If we’re lucky, over the years we grow more patient, become less stressed, and live longer together.”
And that reminded me of a quote I read the night before in The Storyteller by Mario Vargas Llosa:
“What saved you was your never once losing your temper from the beginning of your adventure … Anger is a disorder of the world, it seems. If men didn’t get angry, life would be better than it is …
If you want to hear, you have to know how to listen … How do you think I was able to bear so many misfortunes? By listening, storyteller … Over there, now … Listen, listen storyteller. It’s always like that in the beginning. A sort of confusion of voices. later on, you can understand them. I had earned their trust, perhaps. Very soon, we could converse. And now they’re my kinfolk ….
That, anyway, is what I have learned. On each of my journeys I learn a lot, just listening … I start listening. And I learn. I listen closely, the way he did. Go on listening, carefully, respectfully. After a while the earth feels free to speak … Some things know their own story and the stories of other things, too; some know only their own.
Whoever knows all the stories has wisdom, no doubt.”
I’m lucky to have my wife. She’s the only wisdom I need. We’re all lucky to have stories. Which ones will you tell today?
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James Altucher Quote: It’s Your Fault
Posted: May 12, 2011 Filed under: Uncategorized | Tags: Happiness, James Altucher, Quotes, Self-Help Leave a comment »“And why did you listen to your friend’s stock advice? Why did you listen to anyone? And why did you think suing someone can solve your happiness and give you a better life? And why do you give advice. You go on the toilet like everyone else. You’re an animal made of dirt and skin and tiny bacteria crawling all over you, and diseases and infections you don’t even know about it. And maybe even small tumors that are now starting to pop up in your brain but too small to see in a test. And when people walk down the street you think to yourself, I’m glad I’m not them. And you don’t even know them. You think, I’m so glad I’m not going home to whatever lousy life they have.
But who even cares what you think?
And what about you? Why are you always blaming the government for all of your problems? Who cares about bailouts and Goldman Sachs and “the Bernank” and all the CEOs who are firing everyone while taking mega-millions in salaries. You think they are so happy? Dick Fuld blames Jamie Dimon who blames Hank Paulson who probably blames Bush who blames Bernanke who blames Andrew Cuomo who blames Bill Clinton who probably blames Hilary but is scared to say it. Every day all I hear from you is about the government and the banks and Obama. BORING. If it bothers you so much, don’t read that blog. Don’t open that newspaper. Turn off the TV. You’re wrong all the time so just start doing the opposite of what you’ve always been doing.
For once, for just once, take responsibility for your own actions Take responsibility for your anger, for your sadness, for you poverty, for your failures. Once you do that, that’s step one. Step two is: “become the luckiest person”. I’m not trying to sell anything. I’m agenda-less. Write me and I’ll give you my book for free. I want you to be happier. Just admit it. It’s your fault. And life isn’t going to be better until you say it out loud.”
You can read more about James Altucher here and here.
Life Lesson Learned: You Never Truly Own A Book Until You’ve Marked It Up
Posted: May 10, 2011 Filed under: Uncategorized | Tags: Books, Picasso, Quotes, reading 8 Comments »
… in a world in which we’ll no longer own books as discrete physical objects, the only really meaningful thing we’ll own will be the reading experience itself. – quoted in the New York Times
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